Bringing Mah Jongg to the Next Generation

Martha Kaiser and Hadley MillerMah Jongg is no longer your grandmother’s game. A new generation of enthusiasts are calling tiles, racking, doing the Charleston and making new friends at the table.

But how to learn the game? It takes a bit of instruction. Recognizing the need, two Scarsdale friends saw an opportunity to teach others the game and host gatherings to play.

Scarsdale’s Hadley Miller and Martha Kaiser recently launched “Parlour Mahj.” We attended one of their events at local restaurant Micheline and asked the two to share their story.

What is Parlour Mahj? What was the genesis of your idea?

The Parlour is a modern, community-driven mahjong movement offering classes, private group sessions, and elevated mahjong events. The idea grew out of our own experience learning and loving the game. We saw how mahjong brought people together across generations and neighborhoods. We realized there was a need for a warm, stylish, welcoming space dedicated to teaching, gathering, and playing.

Why do you think Mah Jongg has become so popular?

Mahjong checks all the boxes: it’s social, mentally engaging, endlessly satisfying, and deeply connecting. People are craving connection and shared experiences, and mahjong gives a sense of ritual and camaraderie in a world that moves so fast. It’s also screen-free, which many find refreshing.

What were some of your initial activities?

We began by hosting small learning groups in our homes and at local partners’ venues. The classes ranged from absolute beginners, guided play for new players, and open play tables for those looking to practice. From there, we expanded into private events, collaborations with local businesses, and beautifully curated mahjong gatherings that blend play with hospitality.

How do you plan to extend the business?

-We’re growing in a few directions:

-More classes with daytime and evening series, for all levels.

-Signature “Parlour Events” that combine mahjong with food, style, and community-building.

-We are hosting a spa and Mahjong retreat in the Berkshire’s this February. (Mention this article for a discount!)

-Start ‘em Young! We will be adding more youth classes 2026!

Over time, we hope to make The Parlour a go-to resource for mahjong in Westchester. A place where people learn, connect, and just have fun!

What has surprised you about launching a business?

The community enthusiasm! We knew people loved mahjong, but the number of messages, referrals, and “I’ve always wanted to learn!” moments have been incredible. We’ve also been pleasantly surprised by how many local businesses want to partner. It's reminded us how supportive our area can be.

Tell us about yourselves — what did you do before you became moms and games women?

Before The Parlour, we worked in many fields… Entertainment, Digital Products, Wellness, Cognitive Neuroscience and Child Development. Once we became moms, we found ourselves craving both creativity and community. Mahjong became a joyful outlet and eventually a business. The Parlour lets us blend our professional backgrounds with something we truly love: building community through gathering.

Give our readers a few Mah Jongg tips — and common foibles to avoid.

⁠-Don’t stress during the Charleston. Look for a section that feels workable and build from there, one step at a time.
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-Take your time. There’s no need to rush. Stay alert for joker exchange opportunities!

-⁠It’s never too early to play defensively. Pay attention to what others discard or expose. Those clues can help guide your own decisions.

-Have patience and commitment. Especially as you’re learning, give yourself grace. Choose a line, stick with it, and let yourself settle into the rhythm of the tiles.

Anything else?

Just that we’re so grateful for the warm reception. We can’t wait to welcome even more players to The Parlour community!

Check them out on Instagram here or email them at parlourmahj@gmail.com.