Saturday, Nov 23rd

SherylWuDunnTickets are now on sale for this year’s May 2nd Gourmet Galaxy, Scarsdale Edgemont Family Counseling Service’s annual fundraiser, to be held at Westchester Country Club. Guests will sample fine cuisine and treats from an array of local restaurants beginning at 6:30 p.m. A silent auction will be held featuring luxury items, along with hors d’oeuvres and fine wines, and an Apple iPad to be raffled.

Scarsdale Edgemont Family Counseling Service presents its “Open Door Award” annually for outstanding community involvement. The agency is particularly proud to extend the award this year to include global involvement and awareness of women’s issues. The award recipient, Sheryl WuDunn, is a Pulitzer Prize winner, business executive, entrepreneur and longtime Scarsdale resident and mother of three. She is a best-selling author and her latest book, “Half the Sky: Turning Oppression into Opportunity for Women Worldwide”, was co-authored with her husband, New York Times columnist Nicholas Kristof, and focuses on the challenges facing women around the globe and the struggle for gender equality.

Client fees and insurance plans only cover a portion of the work undertaken by Scarsdale Edgemont Family Counseling Service. The event is a celebration of community support, confidence and contributions.

Tickets are $200 ($150 for first time attendees). For information and tickets, visit www.sfcsinc.org or call the office at 914-723-3281. Their motto is “it all starts with an open door.”

 

 

HollyFinkBecoming a mother is hard enough, but imagine giving birth to a show about motherhood that would become a national sensation? That’s exactly what happened to Ann Imig, creator of the show Listen to Your Mother, which expanded from her hometown of Madison, Wisconsin to 10 cities nationwide including New York City. Listen To Your Mother is a series of readings by New York writers in celebration of all aspects of motherhood.

Westchester moms, Holly Rosen Fink of Larchmont, and Betsy Cadel of Edgemont, are both Associate Producers of the New York City Event. Fink, founder of MamaDrama and long-time passionate theater-goer said, “I could not be more honored and awed by the women that I'm working with to bring this production to the stage." Cadel, is a writer, author and blogger in her own right, many of you may even be familiar with her popular book KidSavvy Westchester: A Parents’ Guide of Information & Inspiration .

Through a rigorous audition process the cast was ultimately narrowed down to 13 engaging authors, performers, high-profile bloggers and journalists each telling their own story. “The themes are so diverse that there is definitely something that will resonate with every mom.” Cadel said. Westchester mom and television personality, Rene Syler of Chappaqua, will be hosting the event. She is best known as an anchor on The Early Show on CBS and through her book and website BetsyCadel GoodEnoughMom.com.

In the spirit of the community of motherhood each show has chosen a local charity to donate to. The NYC show will donate 10% of the ticket sale proceeds to the Room to Grow Organization.

The performance is May 6th at the JCC of Manhattan at 2pm. This is a great idea for a moms’ day out in the city, but definitely leave the kids at home as the material, while perfect for you, is not suitable for them.

The show is nearly sold out so to order tickets or find out more information go to: Listentoyourmothershow.com.

 

 

 

Here are two nice events from Scarsdale High School:daffodils
YES Spring Flower Sale

The Scarsdale Youth Employment Services office (YES) is a community organization that matches bright, talented, ambitious Scarsdale teenagers with prospective employers. They depend on donations from the community to sustain their school office and convenient online system. They have an exciting new fundraiser for the Spring of 2012.

YES has collaborated with Living Color Fundraiser to provide you with the best quality plants and flowers for your garden at great prices. Please order all your flowers, vegetables, seeds and herbs to plant in your garden this Spring and support the good work done at YES. Hanging baskets and color bowls will also be available as Mother's Day Gifts. Orders will be accepted through April 5th and delivered the first week of May.

Click here to find the order form.

Calling All SHS French Club Alumni

The SHS French Club cordially invites you to its 90th anniversary celebration on Saturday evening April 14, 2012 from 6:30 PM – 10:30 PM in the SHS Student Cafeteria. The celebration includes hors d’oeuvres, dinner and dessert as well as French Club videos and photographs dating from 1981 – 2012. There will be live entertainment and a silent auction. Be a part of the proud history of one of the longest-running clubs in SHS history!

R.S.V.P. by Wednesday April 4, 2012.  For more information please contact Laura Bell at: lbell@scarsdaleschools.org or by phone (914) 721-2558

Here is a letter from French Teacher Laura Bell, inviting all former French students to the event:

Chers étudiants et anciens membres du Cercle Français,
Salut tout le monde!

This school year marks the 90th anniversary of the Scarsdale High School French Club, making it one of the longest-running clubs in the history of SHS.  You have all been a part of this special history as students of French and especially as members of le Cercle Français.  Perhaps you played a role in one of our great videos, ground-breaking technology for its time!  Or did you write an article or a poem for our newspaper Papier Mâché?  Do you remember flipping crêpes or donning funny costumes during our Mardi Gras relay races?  Or how about preparing one of the recipes in our cookbook "Bon Appétit" or attending the traditional autumn festival dinner?  Did you work on our series of calendars or participate in the International Fair as models of French haute couture or dancers of the can-can?  How many crêpes au Nutella did you serve to hungry students?

Or did you simply enjoy the beauty of the French language and the culture of France?

For some of you, more than thirty years have sped by since we last saw each other; for others, only a few.  On April 14, we will have the chance to reconnect, to share the memories.  You will also have the opportunity to meet the current officers and members while enjoying a delicious dinner of, bien sûr, crêpes!

Please join us.  It's been too long.

 

SummerBrave09122On March 23 and 24, the SHS Drama Club blew away their audience with “Summer Brave”, a humorous tragedy written by Pulitzer Prize winner William Inge. Directed by Adrienne Meyer, the highly talented cast took viewers to a small town in Kansas to witness the innocence and impetuosity of youth.

“This character has been the most challenging I’ve ever had to take on,” remarked senior Will Segal. Segal explains, “My character, Hal, is quite complicated. My character is an actor, as he plays the strong and friendly leading man to hide his true, sad, lonely self”.

Only his college friend, Allen, knows Hal for who he truly is. Senior Alex Altieri, a newcomer to the club, artfully played this role, and found the whole experience rewarding. This is only Altieri’s second show with the SHS Drama Club. Although he has always been interested in drama, the senior never had the chance to act at SHS as his other obligations prevented him from doing so. This year, he was finally able to find some free time which he could devote to acting. Altieri says that he especially enjoyed the play’s “realism and dynamic characters” and that the play gave the actors the opportunity to “explore a different persona”.

Bianca Rogoff, a sophomore, had her first leading role as Madge. She recently joined the club and with each role has

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Michelle Ostroff, Lorna Begg, Sophie Nobler, Will Segal, Alex Altieri, Justine Gelfman, and Clint Frehill
overcome her fear of the stage and grown as an actress. “I found the role both challenging and personally fulfilling,” explains Rogoff. “Many teenage girls go through the angst, drama and temptations that my character experiences. Madge does not always act morally but instead is quite impulsive which is realistic.” Rogoff does a masterful job portraying Madge who wages an internal war between safety and passion.

Also involved with the show were Seniors Clint Frehill and Justine Gelfman. Clint Frehill played Howard Bevins, a middle-aged ladies man who realizes that he needs to change and settle down. Gelfman plays Rosemary Sydney who ends up marrying Bevins in the play. The graduating seniors put on believable southern accents and ended their Drama Club adventures on a great note. Both DC veterans, Frehill and Gelfman are interested in pursuing theater in college. They found their last show to be a bittersweet experience. What’s next for the duo? They will be directing the Senior Class play, “High School Musical” which will be presented on May 18 and 19 at 7:30pm and May 20 at 2pm at the SHS auditorium. More than 80 seniors auditioned for the play which promises to be an entertaining event!

(Pictured at top: Bianca Rogoff and Sophie Nobler)
Photo credit: Marnie Gelfman

Heffner

Contributor Will Heffner is a senior at Scarsdale High School and has been a lifelong resident of Scarsdale. In his free time, he enjoys acting, and playing music. If you would like to contact Will for any questions or comments, he can be reached at willheffner@gmail.com.

 

hoffmancar1Here is a letter to the readers of Scarsdale10583 from Sharon Hoffman, a working mom who lives in Fox Meadow: I live over on Grand Boulevard, across the street from Hyatt Field. You probably know the block, if you have a child who’s played baseball on that field, or a younger one you’ve pushed on the swings in the park playground. You may also know it because you use it as a speedy cut-through, a way to shave a few minutes off your errands or your trip to work, the only route you can take to make the train if you really book it.

I’m writing to ask that you please -- please -- stop doing that and slow down.

The picture you see attached to this letter is a picture of my car. My 23-year-old babysitter was driving that car Monday evening. She had put her signal on and slowed down to turn left in to my driveway, when she was rear-ended by a driver who, as a witness told the police, must have been going fifty miles an hour. The force of the impact spun the car around and sent it into my neighbor’s lawn; for some reason, the car went in to reverse then (maybe her arm hit the shift knob), and drove backwards across the street. Somehow, my babysitter had the presence of mind to turn the car off before it crashed through the fence and down on to the baseball field.

Look at that car again, and now think about this: My nine-year-old son was sitting in the back seat.

I’ve gone through all the what-ifs since then... what if my babysitter had tried to turn the car to avoid getting hit; what if there was an oncoming car; what if, what if, what if. Both she and my son, by some miracle, seem to be fine, though she’s very sore, and my son has an enormous bruise on his face from the seat belt. They were both terribly shaken by the accident, of course. But you can look at that picture and know what I know. They could both be dead.

Let me tell you something else about that accident. It was a straight-on hit; there is no evidence the driver behind my car was trying to turn (and there’s a big shoulder to the right of the street, going downhill). There is a skid mark, right behind where my car got hit, that is about three feet long. Three feet.

To the fifty-something man from Edgewood who was driving the SUV: Be honest with yourself. Why were you driving fifty miles an hour down that road with a car in front of you? Why were you unprepared for a car to slow down in front of you, and unable to control your own car? Why didn’t you hit the brakes or turn right to try to avoid my car? What did you think, that my babysitter was going to do a donut and zip in to my driveway?

And with a three-foot skid mark, here’s the worst, and inevitable, question: Did you even see the car in front of you, or were you looking down at a phone?

My babysitter is an au pair from Germany, where kids have to save thousands of dollars for the privilege of getting a driver’s license. That money pays for many hours of mandatory instruction and supervised practice. She’s an exceptionally careful driver. When she came here, I told her, it’s not your driving I’m worried about -- it’s the people driving around you. They drive too fast, in very big cars, and they’re always late getting somewhere so they get right up behind you to make sure you know they’re serious. Plus, this has to be the nation’s capital of distracted driving. Try this sometime: Watch the drivers approaching you next time you run to the supermarket, and count the number you see looking down. You’ll be amazed. I constantly am. We get emails from our elementary school pleading with us not to text and drive at pickup and dropoff. Seriously. I know, I know... you only check at stoplights, you read but don’t type, you have to look at the directions, you’re just dialing a number and that’s okay because you’ve got Bluetooth. Everyone’s really good at typing and driving, until they’re not. Why would you even take the chance?

Some free advice, and it’ll even save you money: Check out www.idrivesafely.com. That’s one of many sites where you can take an online defensive driving refresher course. You’ll be reminded you’re supposed to keep three car lengths between you and the car in front of you, so you have time to adjust if something happens you didn’t predict. The few hours you spend taking the course will knock ten percent off your car insurance payments for three years.

In the case of my car, well, I have no more car. The other driver’s insurance company already paid off my lease... they stopped counting at $21,000 worth of damage. I’m a full-time working mother who now has to go buy a new car with what little free time I have this weekend. I will absolutely take that deal because I still have a child to come home to, and I don’t have to make a horrible call to a mother in Germany about her daughter.

But I’m left with the reality that, as I sit here and type this letter, I can hear cars zoom past outside. Happens all the time… and I’ve had cars tail me, too, the way that man was tailing my babysitter that night. There’s a big sign that says 30mph on it, but just like typing and driving, few people seem to think it applies to them. Why anyone would drive faster than that, anywhere in a residential neighborhood, is completely beyond me.

With respect, I would like to ask the Mayor, the Village Manager, the Board of Trustees, and the Scarsdale Police Department to please consider steps to make Boulevard and Grand Boulevard safer for the families who live alongside it. You could put stop signs at the intersection of Potter Road and Boulevard -- that would end the problem immediately, because it would no longer be possible to gain the kind of speed people seem to enjoy driving down that hill. You could reinstitute an occasional speed trap near Hyatt, so people think twice before NASCAR racing alongside a little league field. Will you please at least discuss the issue?

And to my friends and neighbors, please just take a look at that picture of my car one more time. Think about the fact that my son was in the back seat. And think how it would feel to be reading a letter from a mother who’d lost her son in that car, begging you to drive more carefully as a tribute to him. Will nothing short of a child’s death get everyone to pay attention to how they drive around here? The people of this town are smarter than that. And we’re better than that, too.

Sharon Hoffman
March 16, 2012